Granted the concept of a 'hair cut' may not sound that exciting... but it was definitely a new experience. For 16 years I had my hair cut by the same person... she understood my hair, as much as someone can understand hair; so going to someone new - it was scary.
Now I had noticed that this one section of an outdoor mall that is nearby had numerous hair salons... but not only was I dealing with finding someone new; well it was also going to be nice if they spoke a decent amount English. What you quickly learn is that if you pause in front of a store/business then you are greeted by a clerk or individual (in this case a stylist) who will point out any and everything about their product or service.
And pausing and looking... and really wanting to remove weight from my head.... I thought, what the heck it is only hair. It grows back and besides mine spends 90% of the time wet (humidity and thick hair... not an ideal combination). So told him that I wanted a wash and cut - $24 Sing dollars (about $16 US).
His name is James; he is Korean; lives in Malaysia; commutes by MRT (train) 90 min. each day to work in Singapore but likes living in Malaysia better (for one it is less expensive). He speaks little English, however, I speak no Korean or Malay so I think that makes us operating on pretty much the same level.
The novelty of their hair cut begins from sitting in the chair. You don't go to a sink to have your hair washed, instead they use the equivalent of plastic mustard and ketchup squeeze bottles to first squeeze shampoo on to your 'dry' hair and then add water, not really a whole lot - and I was thinking a lot of interesting thoughts, like that was just a little water for my hair. However to my amazement a little does go a long way, as he began to work my hair and shampoo, it took little time to have it very lathered up... but that was just the beginning. For the next 10-15 minutes I received a very intensive scalp, temple, neck and shoulder massage. And we are taking neck massage that sends tingles up and down the spine. I had no realization a scalp could be massaged so. IF my hair wash and cut had ended there I would have left a content and happy person. As the lather worked up he would take large handful out and deposit them in a nearby sink...
When it finally came time to rinse we did go to a rinse sink, but with the rinsing came more of the neck and scalp massage; 'relax and let my muscles do the work' --- okay I can do that.
The actually cutting of my hair (which turned out well) was really an anti-climax to the wash. So when I went to pay, I figured... okay I miscommunicated what I wanted and this massage was going to cost me....NOPE it was still $24. I don't know about any of you, but I have never paid that price (so little) for a hair cut much less a massage.
Needless to say, I will be back. James works everyday except Mondays. I believe I have found someone in Singapore to cut my hair.
26 May 2010
24 May 2010
Buddha's Birthday
One of the interesting aspects of Singapore culture is that with the myriad of cultures and religions existing within a small space (the entire country is about the size of Washington D.C. and a population of 6 million plus) that there are not many days that pass without it coinsiding with a religious observance of some kind. And before you think that you might be able to categorize a religion (i.e. Buddhism) you need to rethink. There are a multitude of variations to the date on which an event is celebrated and how it is celebrated.
Intrigued and curious and ready to learn. I am thrilled that I live within walking distance of some of the largest temples in the city; and an easy bus ride to numerous more. I am constantly greeted by individuals of all ages and walks of life who are willing to answer my questions and talk to me about their religion.
This past weekend an event was taking place around our HDB (apartment complex). It began Friday evening with a seemingly simple carnival type atmosphere. Saturday presented us with a series of events that until this evening we could not explain. Mid afternoon numerous flat bed trucks were lined up in the street, decorated in festive lanterns, lights and flowers. There were several large groups of people in different cultural costumes mingling about (having organized numerous fair parades it did not escape notice that this was the line up for a parade... but the question was why) and while I was not hesitant to ask the luck of my selection were people who were not very fluent in English... and my Chinese (well if they followed the policy of Arizona I should have been driven directly to the airport and told to leave).
The departure time was mid-afternoon. It was later that evening when the real fun began when the parade had made its way back to our HDB in full splendor. Lights on and the groups were no longer riding in the trucks but were now Dragon Dance groups or bands (gongs, drums and pipes) as well as a variety of other individuals who I can only classify as performers.
Was wonderful to watch... but still had no idea as to what was going on. Today, as I accompanied the Singapore Youth Group from Mark's school to rehearsal I asked if anyone knew why such a performance. Evidently it is Buddha's birthday. Okay, so now I knew. Well kind of, but when exactly was when Buddha's birthday because according to my source it could be anytime for a week or so.... but a google search revealed the following:
On what day is Buddha's Birthday? That's simple. Just calculate the first full moon day of the sixth month of the Buddhist lunar calendar, which would be the fourth month of the Chinese calendar, except in years in which there's an extra full moon, and then Buddha's birthday falls in the seventh month. Well, except where it starts a week earlier. And in Tibet it's usually a month later. Oh, and in Japan, Buddha's Birthday always is April 8.
Evidently the full moon in May is the 27th; thus these parades and celebrations could occur anyday or all days this week. Which also explains why Mark has no school this Friday. Because in Singapore, religious events by all religions are acknowledged, recognized and celebrated.
Intrigued and curious and ready to learn. I am thrilled that I live within walking distance of some of the largest temples in the city; and an easy bus ride to numerous more. I am constantly greeted by individuals of all ages and walks of life who are willing to answer my questions and talk to me about their religion.
This past weekend an event was taking place around our HDB (apartment complex). It began Friday evening with a seemingly simple carnival type atmosphere. Saturday presented us with a series of events that until this evening we could not explain. Mid afternoon numerous flat bed trucks were lined up in the street, decorated in festive lanterns, lights and flowers. There were several large groups of people in different cultural costumes mingling about (having organized numerous fair parades it did not escape notice that this was the line up for a parade... but the question was why) and while I was not hesitant to ask the luck of my selection were people who were not very fluent in English... and my Chinese (well if they followed the policy of Arizona I should have been driven directly to the airport and told to leave).
The departure time was mid-afternoon. It was later that evening when the real fun began when the parade had made its way back to our HDB in full splendor. Lights on and the groups were no longer riding in the trucks but were now Dragon Dance groups or bands (gongs, drums and pipes) as well as a variety of other individuals who I can only classify as performers.
Was wonderful to watch... but still had no idea as to what was going on. Today, as I accompanied the Singapore Youth Group from Mark's school to rehearsal I asked if anyone knew why such a performance. Evidently it is Buddha's birthday. Okay, so now I knew. Well kind of, but when exactly was when Buddha's birthday because according to my source it could be anytime for a week or so.... but a google search revealed the following:
On what day is Buddha's Birthday? That's simple. Just calculate the first full moon day of the sixth month of the Buddhist lunar calendar, which would be the fourth month of the Chinese calendar, except in years in which there's an extra full moon, and then Buddha's birthday falls in the seventh month. Well, except where it starts a week earlier. And in Tibet it's usually a month later. Oh, and in Japan, Buddha's Birthday always is April 8.
Evidently the full moon in May is the 27th; thus these parades and celebrations could occur anyday or all days this week. Which also explains why Mark has no school this Friday. Because in Singapore, religious events by all religions are acknowledged, recognized and celebrated.
10 May 2010
Agree to Disagree
Passport to Happiness
In Singapore, on Orchard Road, there exists a sort of musical chair system of events. Currently, and a semi-permanent display row, for the Singapore Youth Olympic Games lines one side of the very wide side walk. May 9th and 10th the ever-changing tent venue held not only displays, booths and a day to evening series of entertainment that focused on the Buddhist religion.
Since the tent is a usual figure in front of this mall complex I guess they decided they need more to attract the attention of people. While certainly not life size, this very large Buddha certainly made you stop.
The square of tables next to the entrance to the tent, where music waifed out into the street, had a large selection of books. Free for the taking - yes Free, books that explained the basic concept of Buddhism; books that were for the advanced learner; books of guidance; books for enlightment; books for children; books for adults; and "Agree to Disagree" conversations on conversion.
For those who know me and for those even more fortunate individuals who have taken classes or workshops from me - you know that I am all about 'perspectives' and how there is definitely more than one and not necessarily a best or better perspective, just different perspectives.
Well I love this book. This 24 page little pamphlet.
The objective of this book is to support Buddhists who are facing proselytism in their workplace, school or even at home, so that they can maintain their stand with compassion and wisdom. The individuals who developed this book (Buddhists) was done to share with fellow Buddhists. "We have no desire or intent to cause any discomfort. We wish to state that the viewpoints in this materal are soley our own. Buddhists, who are just like everyone else, want happiness and do not want suffering. In Singapore, we are able to live well and practise our religions. Towards this end, may Singapore and Singaporeans continue to be safe, prosperous and enjoy a compassionate environment for one and all."
Wow!!! While it may be a guide for young members to the Buddhist religion, assistance for conversations you might find yourself in about your religion ('saying No respectfully') - it is really so much more. And while I am not on a conversion to Buddhism, the teachings are certainly something more of society could benefit to take note of.
The introduction got my attention and my brain immediately began churning about how this could become a promotion for tolerance of all:
"The founders of each religion has as their bsic aim the unity of mankind-to foster harmony, goodwill and understanding among all people of the world.
Like bees gathering honey from different flowers, the wisse one sees only the good in all religions and accepts the essence of the different teachings."
Mark and I were fortunate to have arrived last August in time to hear the Prime Minister's National Day Rally speech. In his speech, which he actually gave 3 times (English, Mandarin Chinese and Malay) he raised his concern regarding the maintenance of religious harmony in Singapore (he was intelligent enough to keep it within the realm of his control, as I believe this is a concern the world community should have). He pointed out that the aggressive pushing of one's religion onto otehrs can prove detrimental to society; imporance of maintaining racial and religious harmony through tolerance and restraint, as well as preserving the common space that all share.
The educator in me (never stop learning) has had her learning button activated and with my newly stocked book shelf I look forward to reading about a religion I know very little about. In addition, I have a temple blocks from my flat with a treasure trove of Monks who are more than willing to discuss philosophy and principals with me. New perspectives.... love it!!!
"According to the Buddha, men are divided amongst themselves because of their strong sense of ego. When this is subdued by seeing the essential emptiness of a being, healthy human realationships will develop. The search for peace and a harmonious way of life therefore begins from within and not from the outside."
09 May 2010
The Seduction of the Green Shirt
Singapore 2010 Youth Olympic Games
What started as a spontaneous act in August 2009 when I saw the promotion for volunteers on a McDonalds' tray liner has turned into a wonderful opportunity to work with people from around the world.
While in attendance at a interview workshop, it took Mark all of 15 minutes to volunteer for the games. The fact that he is fluent in a myriad of German dialects as well as knowing some French and Spanish made him a valuable commodity.
We are both NOC (National Olympic Committe) assistants. Our roles during the games will be vastly different (as I am not fluent in German, or French, or Spanish, or .... ). Currently he is the only volunteer that can speak German (and also has indepth knowledge of Soccer... aka Football) he will be working with the delegations from Austria, Germany and Switzerland (as a start). I am not sure which delegation I will be working with, but given my background it appears that I will be in a position in which that involves multi-tasking and not reacting to stress situations in less than a positive manner.
This is the FIRST Youth Olympic Games (2 years from now the Winter Youth Games will be held in Innsbruck - we have already put in our applications to work there). While the concept of these Games are similar to the Olympic Games we are more familiar with, there are some tweaks. Basketball, for example, will be a 3 on 3 event; Swimming will not include synchronized swimming or water polo.
In addition to the sporting events, the athletes will be involved in Cultural Education activities (we aren't sure of what these will be, as the schedule is not yet released). Athletes participating have to be in attendance for the entire 2 weeks of the games. To give you an idea what might be behind the activities is the key concepts that are reinforced with everything: Excellence, Respect and Friendship.
On Friday, May 7th, was a big kick off celebration. "99 Days" till YOG (Youth Olympic Games). I being naive to Chinese culture didn't get the whole 99 days deal, as they were making a very big deal about this - but am now aware (although not fully educated) to the fact that in the Chinese culture '99' is a lucky number. I have since learned that '50' is another such, lucky number, which I find fortunate as I wll be turning 50 this July.
YOG will have over 20,000 volunteers working (97% of the YOG workforce is volunteers); that is a whole lot of people wearing a lime green polo shirt. So I have come to the conclusion that while working with individuals around the world is a pretty cool thing; the real force in obtaining volunteers from 14-78 to work in 80% humidity and to be the seduction factor of the green shirt.
Continued updates on our ventures as YOG NOC Assistants in the days and weeks to come.
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